Monday 23 January 2012

How To Pick Up Women In The Street

Sooooo many guys wish they could have the skills to pick up women in the street, but never have the right amount of knowledge or persistence to do so.

Today I want to run through a few key things you must do if you want to become successful at street game.

WARNING: This takes a little time to learn, so if you're afraid of getting your hands dirty and sticking with the rejection, then you need to leave now fool!

Right then, back to the good stuff...

1. The warmup

First things first, you need to warm up just like you would in the gym and chat to a couple of "throw away" girls.

Take the term on board lightly, what I mean by throw away is speaking to girls which wouldn't normally be your type, but just helps you get into state and feel a lot more confident about approaching a girl in the street.

Trust me on this one... the first girl is ALWAYS the hardest one. After your first successful interaction, no matter what the girl looks like, you'll feel much more comfortable with approaching girls in the street.


2. Open, hook and close

Ok, so now you have the warmups dealt with, it's time to move onto the nitty gritty.

The first girl you see that blows you away, run straight over to her and open her by saying something out of the ordinary and complimentary.

So for example; "Hey, excuse me I just wanted to say I think you little incredibly cute in that dress".

This will grab her attention, make her stop and also acknowledge you.

Now that you have her attention, you need to hook her into a short conversation by stating observations.

Something like "You look Swedish..."

She''ll respond with something and then, you keep making statements (guessing) that keep the conversation flowing.

Lastly, you need to close... this means getting a solid number that you can follow up with later.

Saying something like "Listen, I need to get back to my friends in the coffee shop, but let's grab a drink some time".

Once she agrees, take your phone out, make sure she gets hers out and then put your number into her phone, call your phone and then say "Cool, I'll speak to you soon".

That's street game! Knowing how to pick up women in the street is SOOOO easy when you know how dude, just keep the banter short and sweet, body language ice cool and that's it. Good luck!

How To Pick Up Women Online With Ease

There's a common myth that only weirdos and loners use the internet to get a date.

Now there is an element of truth to that myth, because there are a ton of strange people online (especially on dating sites) that hide behind old pictures and pen names, pretending to be someone else.

Having said that, there are also a bunch of very normal people just like me and you, who use the internet for what it's meant to be used for... meeting new people and connecting.

Today I want to go over a couple of proven ways that I've come across which are great for helping you pick up women online.

Ready? Cool, let's get into it.

Update your old photos NOW

Why do people insist on uploading photos that are both out of date and portray them in the wrong way? Well it's because they are self conscious about what people think of them.

Women obviously have a harder time, because men "initially" go for looks, whilst men focus on making themselves look like complete and utter tools.

So, the important thing here is that you need to upload fresh photos that are no more than 2 months old... they need to be with you smiling, out with your friends (preferably girls) and traveling if you can.

Re-write your bio

If you're on a dating site, you need to write a compelling intro. Women WILL read these and will make a judgement call based on this and your photos, so make sure it's spot on.

The best type of intro is one that is very descriptive and focuses on a whole bunch of positive things. You should never touch on things you don't like or don't feel comfortable with.

For example instead of saying:

"Hey I'm Bob and I like fishing and going to the pub with my mates on a Friday. I like any girl that likes me".

This just screams that you're a pathetic loser, so don't do it. Try writing something like this:

"Hey I'm Bob, I love traveling and exploring new places, I recently came back from a 3 month exploration in Thailand which was amazing. I'm a big foody and enjoy eating all types of exotic foods, I'm really into girls who enjoy traveling also and a traveling buddy would be cool ;)"

The second intro is much more compelling and goes into detail about his passions and what he's looking.

So the bottom line is this, knowing how to pick up women online comes down to you creating a compelling profile, one that makes women want to actually click on your profile.

Wednesday 11 January 2012

The Ultimate Guide On How To Pick Up Women Without Artifice


Anyone who has ever made an attempt at picking a woman up will agree to it that rejection is one of the greatest sources of inertia in the dating department.

With the fear of the unexpected set aside, potential humiliation, failure as well setting oneself up for rejection prevents many men from making that killer shot to approach a woman even when all the lights are green.

If you are the type, then I got some good news for you. Here are a few tips on how to pick up women that can work some magic for you.

Detach yourself from the outcome

Caring about what a woman will think of you when you approach her is a huge sign that you are destined to fail. To be realistic, it's true, there are so many women out there that you are totally incompatible with.

Probably, most of them are not your type whereas the opposite is also possible.  Get over this, don't care if you will be rejected or succeed in your mission. Caring too much makes you do everything that you can to avoid messing up, but consequently, you end up messing it all up.

Remember that you are choosing her

When you go talking to a woman for the very first time, you should have the reason why you are talking to her at the back of your mind. It's most likely that the woman knows that you are trying to pick her up if at all you are not genuinely asking for directions. Others have tried it before you and many will still do in the future.

Always remind yourself that you are approaching her because you like her and hence it doesn't matter whether she likes your approach or not. Always keep in mind that you will not take her home if you don't like her.

Be enthusiastic and enjoy what your trying to do and she will too

Out of fear of the unexpected, most guys approach the pick up situation as if it is a horrifying experience whereas in reality, it is supposed to be a pleasurable one. Avoid trying to win her over immediately because there is a big possibility that you might fail.

Make her laugh and first try to find out the kind of a person the woman is. If you impress her with your first moves, winning her over will be easy and you can rest assured of the likelihood of having many more good and enjoyable interactions.

Avoid Immediate Compliments

When picking up a woman, avoid complimenting her especially her looks. It's not wrong to pay attention to details, but be careful; things might just turn ugly for you if you mention anything about her physical appearance.

If at all you must, compliment her accessories, clothing or anything that seems out of the ordinary to you, but not her looks. Not even when she has the most beautiful eyes in the world. She might take it that you are only interested in bedding her. Physical compliments should come much later.

Build an attraction immediately

When trying to pick up a woman, you must have the ability to convey the signs of a desirable and good mate. To some, these traits come naturally whereas to other they are a must learn. One important trait is confidence. Try as much as possible and project a lot of confidence even if it is the last thing that you are feeling inside. Just fake it.